If we want to live our lives without tension, then we should keep our life very simple and easy. At every problem situation we must keep our face smiling and that too without tensions. We can say this is difficult to keep smiling at every time and to face difficult situations with a smile, but this is the key to happiness & to keep our worries and tensions away from our mind. If anyone says anything to us, we become sad; we should know how to ignore the problems from our life. We should also understand the process of forgiving the peoples. If we are forgiving people than we are not forgiving them, but we are forgiving ourselves by reducing the unnecessary loads from our minds. This is the rare habit which is available with very a smaller number of peoples.
If we want to rise in our lives, we should understand and learn the qualities of ignoring the people also. You cannot make everyone happy , we should understand our limitations also. For example: You might have seen the launch of Rocket, once it goes high into space it become very light in weight by shedding unnecessary weights from its body. If the rocket won’t shed the weight from its body than the rocket will collapse and will not rise to the heights it was expected to & it will fall before its target. In a similar way, if we want to rise height in our lives than we should shed our old thoughts, old resentments, anger ego etc. If we don’t shed all these things than our rocket of our life will not be able to reach the desired targets and will fall before reaching the target. So let the Rocket of your life fly high in life by shedding unnecessary weight of anger, resentment, ego etc.
Once we were kids, we were all very happy because we live in the present & we enjoy each and little things with a lot of happiness and passion. We find happiness in smaller things like colorful papers, bubbles , small car, small plays etc. We fight with our brother/sisters & friends also but at the next very moment we become friends. We don’t carry ego ; we don’t carry anything in our heart, and we enjoy everything we have.
kids are more intelligent than Adults because as a kid our desires are very less, and we tend to be happy in whatever we have. We laugh on smaller things, we enjoy smaller plays, we love small things, This all happens because our expectations are less, and we do more. As a adult we reverse the cycle we expect a lot from everybody, we stop forgiving people, we keep all things in our hearts, we don’t love and many more and end result is we became machines who laughs very less, who expects more etc.
Learn the habit of forgiving the people, if we forgive than only, we can rise to a certain level in our lives. Once we are happy with ourselves than only, we can rise to certain heights in our lives.